All about how you adopt & adapt yourself !

                                               I believe happiness is something really more than complicated to be explained & understand as well. What is happiness? I often asked myself but couldn't find an answer.

Of all the life I've lived I learned happiness is nothing but a pleasure one seeks outta selfishness. You are happy when your expectations are met but also learned this is just momentary. Then another question pops in my mind. How does happiness last forever? & to this the answer was -- happniess is all about how you adopt the world around you & then adapt to the world. 

                                      I could never define happiness, but yes I understood how happiness lasts forever. Once you learn to adopt, things will never be difficult & once you adapt yourself to the world -- the world will never complain about you.

                  To me - happiness is nothing but finding pleasure in what you've got but not want you want !

Finding Your Own Voice...

One fine day in life you might wake up from a bad dream & then try to calm yourself saying it was just a dream. Things would be easy if it was just a dream , but what if you realise...the dream was nothing but the life you've been living all along ?
         Not evryone's life is a nightmare..but there are few souls living right away the so called bad dream. Living life on terms & conditions is called being alive but not living .Somewhere down the lane , bottom of your heart there's a voice which was unheard or rather ignored in the path of reaching the expectations of others.
           Life's all about you. You are the one who knows what exactly are you expecting outa life and what you want to end up with.  Take-off may be unplanned , Journey might have been difficult but then remember Landing is all upto you. Listen to your heart , say "Im all ears" to those ignored & unheard voices buried deep down in your heart. Its all about Finding your Own Voice. Someday when you wake up from a dream...let that be the blissfull life you've lived but not the life which you have to call a bad dream & just move on !

Attachment...can only give you pain !

When we talk about relationships, obviously the very first thing that hits our thoughts is the attachment that we have towards the most important individuals in our lives.
             I personally believe that when we are bound to a relationship we tend to develop an attachment toward that person and that is when exactly starts the so called INSECURITY in ones life. Attachment purely gives rise to Insecurity , the fear of losing someone.
                     In any kind of relationship one definetly tries to dominate the other persons mindspace & there begins the Emotional Atyachaar. The other one may agree with you eventually but just for the reasons of convenience or compromisation but not conviction.
               Relationships eventually give rise to attachments & this is human nature which inturn expects the individual involved in the relationship to live according to the expectation of the other, Compromise & Sacrifice many things in life & after you're done with all of that...leaves you nothing but Insecurity of losing them if all your adjustments, compromisations & sacrifice donot workout the way as it was expected or supposed to.
                     
                        Realisation is the need of the hour & the only solution & this can happen only when we can convince ourselves that attachment is nothing but a selfish human act which can give nothing but Pain & once you realise this...Life will then unfold all that it has in store for you !!       

Lies Can Make Life Fascinating !!

Like I said earlier, its good to be reminded that there is truth in Life but at the end of the day its Fascinating to know that all the Truth was just a Lie .
                              Try recollecting how many times you ever had to lie & how things favoured you all the time you lied. Sometimes its good not to be honest. Remember Lies can bring disaster to your life but at times it can work wonders. I'm not sure if any of you reading this would agree with me, But If you think things would workout well & envision a positive result then Hell Yes there's no harm in lying.

                              Forget about how things might end up & what would be the outcome at the end of the day -------- Just remember, if that lie is gonna make someone happy , then you dont have to think twice .

      All you must have is The COURAGE to RISK to see a smile on your lovedones face !!

Early Lessons In Life.....All about Relationships !!

During or at the end of a busy day or when it feels difficult, its good to be reminded that there is still beauty & truth in life .
                 I may sound foolish if I start talkin about life and the lessons learnt from life coz im in my early 20's and half the life i lived was my childhood & the rest was a more or less a happy go lucky kinda time in my teens. I aint no saint to preach about life but yes can definetely quote --- you dont have to live a 100 long years to understand what exactly life is all about. A little span of time is more than enough for any individual to experience life to a larger extent.
          There's a miracle called BONDING that dwells within any kinda relationship & you dont know how it happens & where it gets started...but the responsibility which comes along the bonding always gives you a special lift. It brings about alot of changes in life, makes you worth loving & caring and the eqations that you share with the person related gives you a strength to fight , to live and that is when you get to realise that your life is gods most precious gift.
                 Life i believe is just like the Rubix Cube. All you have to do is take a little pain to match the cubes. It may not be as simple as we think it is nor as tough as we assume it to be. There are countless numbers of wrong twists & turns, but when you get it right it looks perfect no matter what way you look at it. Similar are the relationships that we as an individual are bonded to others in our personal lives. Life is all about FAITH , TRUST and LOVE & once you get the equations balanced towards the relationship your bonding would then be a perfect chemistry.

         Mortals live just once , so you've gotta make the most of it.....Is what I've learnt from Life !!!

Expect the UnExpected !

The most amazing things about life are the twists & turns that allways come as surprise packages. It's all about the unexpected in every road of the jounrney called LIFE. Believe in DESTINY. If u're destined to land somewhere then no matter what , you will definetely be there even if the entire world is all against you. But then remember , destiny is no matter of chance. It is not a thing to be waited for , it is a thing to be achieved . Trust your abilities , believe in yourself & strive hard to achieve what you want . Never waste time looking out for oppurtunities , try creating your own. If you get a chance take it. If that changes your life , let it. Do not have expectations from life coz expectations can only hurt you. Life is all about unexpected things. Do your best & leave to GOD the rest. Life's a play , let destiny play its part and you simply have to justify your role. Seasons change, so do people around. Things do go wrong at times but remember...Life goes on.
        In the end Life may be all about the unexpected but its upto you to get what you expect from Life .
Confidence may not bring success but gives the power to face the challenge. A man's reach should exceed his grasp , or what's a HEAVEN for ??

Me & my Principles....To Early To Confess !!

There are a handful of people in my life whom i call my best friends..but can still shout confidently that none of them ever had a chance of exploring the other side of me. When someone asks me what matters the most to you..an immediate reply from my end would allways be SELF RESPECT...one damn thing for me thats above all. Next is the ATTITUDE that would top my list of priorities.. "I care a damn" attitude in the right proportions is what i would die for in any person.. coz i believe im someone who would rather not walk like you care who rules the world...instead walk like as if you care who rules it..But at times my instinct says im not what i actually try to potray myself to be...LIFE according to me is a mixture of complications..taking life where you want to makes a difference rather than allowing life to take you where you are destined to be...If you want to excel being different isn't just enough..you gotta be outstanding.. is what I believe.some people see things as they are and say why , but I dare to dream things that never were and say why not !