When we talk about relationships, obviously the very first thing that hits our thoughts is the attachment that we have towards the most important individuals in our lives.
I personally believe that when we are bound to a relationship we tend to develop an attachment toward that person and that is when exactly starts the so called INSECURITY in ones life. Attachment purely gives rise to Insecurity , the fear of losing someone.
In any kind of relationship one definetly tries to dominate the other persons mindspace & there begins the Emotional Atyachaar. The other one may agree with you eventually but just for the reasons of convenience or compromisation but not conviction.
Relationships eventually give rise to attachments & this is human nature which inturn expects the individual involved in the relationship to live according to the expectation of the other, Compromise & Sacrifice many things in life & after you're done with all of that...leaves you nothing but Insecurity of losing them if all your adjustments, compromisations & sacrifice donot workout the way as it was expected or supposed to.
Realisation is the need of the hour & the only solution & this can happen only when we can convince ourselves that attachment is nothing but a selfish human act which can give nothing but Pain & once you realise this...Life will then unfold all that it has in store for you !!
I personally believe that when we are bound to a relationship we tend to develop an attachment toward that person and that is when exactly starts the so called INSECURITY in ones life. Attachment purely gives rise to Insecurity , the fear of losing someone.
In any kind of relationship one definetly tries to dominate the other persons mindspace & there begins the Emotional Atyachaar. The other one may agree with you eventually but just for the reasons of convenience or compromisation but not conviction.
Relationships eventually give rise to attachments & this is human nature which inturn expects the individual involved in the relationship to live according to the expectation of the other, Compromise & Sacrifice many things in life & after you're done with all of that...leaves you nothing but Insecurity of losing them if all your adjustments, compromisations & sacrifice donot workout the way as it was expected or supposed to.
Realisation is the need of the hour & the only solution & this can happen only when we can convince ourselves that attachment is nothing but a selfish human act which can give nothing but Pain & once you realise this...Life will then unfold all that it has in store for you !!
